Posts tagged relationships.

guys complain about girls being this and that. girls complain about guys being this and that. maybe less infidelity, and more loving would help.

what is one truth about guys?

so it’s not gonna be easy. it’s gonna be really hard. we’re gonna have to work at this every day, but i want to do that because i want you. i want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. will you do something for me, please? just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? what’s it look like? if it’s with him, go. go! i lost you once, i think i can do it again. if i thought that’s what you really wanted. but don’t you take the easy way out. -the notebook

i got to thinking about relationships. there are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. but the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. and if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous.

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RELATIONSHIP SPILL

fallen relationship. for a girl, youre either trying to get it back or you act hard to hide alll that emotion built up inside.i realized that over the past year ive alwaysfought what ive felt about past relationships. after all im only human, always fighting what im feeling. i try to act as if i dont give a damn, but inside i know its all built up. recently ive been tested with relationships and i feel like im being pulled in three different directions, alll ways messing with my emotions. i was thinking to myself how much i think about certain people and ive analyzed what i actually feel. just thinking about it made me accept the fact that what was there- no longer is. its a lift off my shoulders, just accepting that fact. and i guess where im going with this is- try it. because i think as girls, we give in moreeasily than guys. because we still have all that emotion built up, when its right in front of us- we just take it. seeing all these girls in relationships from the outside view and seeing all its flaws.. it makes me sick. i could only imagine what others thought with my old relationships. i mean its so obvious how badly theyre being treated and how little theyre getting compared to what they actually deserve. yeah, i know every relationship has its flaws. but seriously? if a guy cheats on you, move on. dont you think that just shows how much he respects you? NOT SO MUCH RESPECT THERE. “oh who are you, deana, to go and think you know about what we’re dealing with" yeah sure. but seriously if you think about it. you look like a fool. instead of putting so much effort and time in ‘fixing' a relationship- how about you go and focus on yourself. you dont need a man to live. someone worth your time will come around. CHEESY, I KNOW :)